Salsero = Male Salsa Dancer
Salsera = Female Salsa Dancer

Salsa dancing can be a hot, sensual, type of dance and the go-around assumption is pair up two salsa dancers in a relationship and you get a very volatile combination. With two people sharing the same hang-out environment, mix in some social dancing with different people, and the possibility of a relationship that may or not work and you can get some awkward moments.
 
I wondered over the weekend what makes relationships between salsa dancers work and what doesn't. If you're a salsa dancer, would a relationship work with another salsa dancer? I say yes, given the right conditions.

I make it common knowledge that I don't want a relationship with someone that is a salsa dancer however, it is because I don't want to go out salsa dancing every bloody weekend. I like to do a little bit of everything and salsa dancing 4 days out of the week is way too much. If I ever hooked up with a salsa dancer I'd probably end up doing something else while she's out dancing most of the time.

With that in mind, I pondered at the current relationships that I know work and learn from the mistakes of the ones that didn't work. I found the following to be true:

There's a generalization that if someone knows how to really dance then they must be good at parking the limo in the garage, driving a stick, licking the salt, and well you get the idea. Is it true? Well yes and no.

Why do I bring this topic up you wonder? Is it because I want to fill the void that is missing in my life because I believe I'm a great dancer so that means I'm good in the sack? Or perhaps I am the contradiction where I'm told I'm so bad that I should forget about the possibility of procreating? Not at all reader, I'm thinking about the guy next to me that can dance and I'm wondering is *he* good at the duty?

Defining someone as "good" at dancing is subjective so we'll need to delve in more on whether this person is good or not. I believe that a person's way of dancing is their way of expressing their inner personality. We've all seen that one hottie at the club that is dancing so well that you think:

1. I want to get to know them.
2. I want to dance with them.
3. I want to ride that cheetah till six in da mornin'.
4. I want to dance with them, and *then* ride 'em until three, because I have work the next morning.

Recent Popular Salsa & Bachata Songs (10-30-05)

Salsa
Hector Tricoche - Asi La Quiero Yo
Ivy Queen - Amiga No Pienses (Salsa Version)
Jay Lozada - No Me Encontraras
Johnny Prez ft. Tito Rojas - Tengo El Control (Salsa Mix)
Luisito Rosario - Rumba Del Barrio
Michel - Mi Primavera
Willy Chirino y Willie Colon - Idilio

Bachata
Alma Encendia - Castigo Eterno
Alvaro Torres ft Mochy y Alexandra - He Venido A Pedirte Perdon
Aventura - Angelito
Elvis Martinez - Yo No Naci' Para Amar
Jenesys - Oh No No
Khriz y Angel - Ven Bailalo (Bachata-Merengue-Reggaeton Mix)
Luigi Manuel - Letizia
Monchy y Alexandra - Vuela Vuela
Nueva Era - Entrega